Step 1: Your default
Prompt:
“When something’s on your mind, what do you usually do?”
Each person selects one:
Talk about it straight away
Take some time before talking
Step 2: What you need
Prompt:
“When you share something, what do you usually want?”
Each person selects one:
To be listened to
Help or advice
A mix of both
Step 3: Compare
Display both people’s responses side by side.
Highlight:
Where you are aligned
Where you are different