Overview

This activity helps couples identify what matters most to them and see where their priorities align.

Step 1: Choose what matters most

Prompt:
Select the 5 things that feel most important to you.

Options:

• Time together

• Time with family

• Friendships and social life

• Work or career

• Routine and structure

• Flexibility and spontaneity

• Community

• Personal time and independence

• Shared experiences (e.g. travel, activities)

• Stability and security

Step 2: Narrow it down

Prompt:
From your selections, choose your top 3.

Step 3: Compare

Display both people’s top 3 side by side.

Highlight:

• Where you overlap

• Where you differ

Step 4: Choose one together

Prompt:
Choose one thing you both want to prioritise more intentionally.

Options:

• Select from overlapping items

• Or choose from either person’s list